Personal, social and emotional development is one of the prime areas of the Early Years Foundation Stage (EYFS). It is very important for children to lead happy and healthy lives. Underpinning personal development are the important attachments that shape their social world. It covers self regulation, managing self and building relationships.
Self regulation is children’s ability to show an understanding of their own and others feelings and to regulate their behavior. It covers children’s ability to be able to work towards their goals, wait for what they want and control their impulses. It is also how they are able to focus on what is said, respond appropriately and follow instructions.
Managing self covers being confident to try new activities and show perseverance and independence. It also involves knowing right from wrong and managing personal needs and hygiene such as dressing, toileting and healthy food choices.
Building relationships covers working and playing together and taking turns, forming positive relationships with adults and peers and showing sensitivity to their own and others needs.